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Vanilla sex vs. BDSM

Tuesday 14 July 2015

Vanilla sex is a term which refers to ordinary sex and involves the most basic way of practicing sex. In other words, it refers to the renowned missionary position and excludes everything which is kinky, adventurous, or daring. So to say, vanilla sex is lame; something detestable because of its boredom and predictability. It is the best way to get a deep depression and spend a lot of money on meds to feel alive. Down with vanilla sex!

Escorts and vanilla sex

Today we will talk about two different extremes on our beloved and open blog. For many people, vanilla sex involves oral sex , vaginal sex and little more. In English, the meaning of vanilla sex can involve some feelings and pleasant but predictable ordinary sex in which both participants know what is going to happen and enjoy it very much. BDSM  is another different world; we could say they are just the opposite. This acronym refers to the terms bondage  and sadomasochism . That is interesting.

However, many luxury escorts , mature escorts , or any other kind of escorts have told us that clients usually make up with vanilla sex. These clients are men who are fed up with jerking off every day; they obviously need a good fuck, but they are so anxious that putting it in is enough for them, so they usually don’t do anything else.

Old lifelong punters who are fed up with practicing a thousand different positions and participating in orgies  also think that practicing vanilla sex is more than enough for them to enjoy the breathtaking body of an escort.

Escorts have told us that many men are not able to break the rules of sex and practice it with little audacity. If there are XXL size dildos and vibrators involved in the sexual encounter, they are always to be used by the escort, not by the client. And same happens with lube or costumes. They are not daring, and that turns out to be a fatidic lost for them every time they date a luxury escort, and don’t give in to the arms of the sex-expert who is just in front of them.

Fear of the unknown

Some escorts comment that the most requested service is the traditional blowjobs, being bareback blowjobs  the most demanded one among oral sex services. There isn’t big news, although, according to some clients, the pleasure obtained is so intense that “there’s no need to change things up.”

Going beyond that easy and fast pleasure, there are other new ones to know and discover, but clients need to be more daring and be willing to get over vanilla sex syndrome. Sometimes, fear of being labeled as freaks makes us focusing on what we already know and missing a whole outspoken sex world offered by mature escorts, who are sex-experts in all aspects.

Getting over vanilla sex syndrome risks

We could sum the risks up by saying that the biggest risk after getting over vanilla sex syndrome is to like what comes after it. The right way to discover new things is to take risks and to forget our patterns and cultural drawings.  Romantic awful harmful films we watched since we were little children taught us that sex is related to deep eternal feelings between a man and a woman exclusively. In those films, men are stereotyped as badass and women as sexual obedient symbols.

Huge shitty luck for the majority of our society, who has taken as valid this prototype of love; however, we think it is biased and very close to cave men thinking. 

Losing control blessing

“Losing control”, but always keeping in mind that health and security are above all, is a good lifestyle for a limited period of time. Experimenting with sex as a regular punter of the wonderful mature escorts or luxury escorts is a highway to pleasure and liberation.

Some escorts offer light BDSM among other pleasurable and tempting services. We should say that light BDSM is just a touch of what can be bondage and sadomasochism. It’s not our first time talking about this fascinating topic on our blog; we regularly mention the subject because clients of escorts enjoy a privileged position to approach this world, so it can be interesting for them. 

Bondage and sadomasochism

Probably sadists, masochists, mistresses, or slaves who read this post could talk better and deeper about this subject because BDSM art is very complex and complete. What does bondage mean? In English and French, this term means to tie somebody with synthetic or leather strings to immobilize the slave under the attentive look of the mistress or master.

In sadomasochism, sadist means master or mistress -it varies for men and women.  Anyway, it refers to the person who leads the situation, harms and humiliates his or her slave. Although it looks like something dangerous and out of control, the truth is that they previously have agreed a code to control the pain suffered by the humiliated.

Masochists feel much pleasure when they get harmed, humiliated, or abused by their master or mistress.

The variety of objects, codes, situations, complements, or tools used in this practice is very wide. BDSM is a complete practice which consists of getting satisfaction by humiliating and being humiliated, but it cannot be compared to any other sexual deviation because people who practice it affirm they have grown mature; they have discovered their traumas and have solved them by practicing BDSM.

For sure, it’s easy to cause more pain than needed to a beginner. Therefore, if you are stuck in vanilla sex and you want to experience something different, light BDSM can lead you to new unexplored pleasures. 

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